Have you ever had a loved one incarcerated? how did you cope?

My fiance is serving time in prison. I won't go into why but say he has had drug and alcohol addictions. It is hard because I really want to be able to pick up the phone and call him but I can't. I miss him so much it hurts. But, all you can do is wait. Which sucks. lol. November 2009 my love will be home. yay!